My mother
Joan McGinnis
2 Sept 1916-22 Jan 2009
My mother passed away early this morning. I saw her yesterday in the hospital. When I went to kiss her goodbye, it was difficult to manouever around her tubes and machines. She tried to raise her head, and my glasses hit her cheek. She laughed at our bumping of heads. As I left she smiled and waved. I'm glad I have that nice last memory of her. This is her obituary:
Joan Dorien Edith McGinnis passed away peacefully in Lakeridge Health Hospital in Bowmanville Ontario on Thursday January 22, 2009. She was 92 years old. Born in Guelph Ontario on 2 September 1916 to parents Charles Fuller & Ruth Simpson, she married Cecil McGinnis (who predeceased her in 1960) in Guelph in 1936.
Joan moved to Ajax Ontario and worked in the Munitions Factory during WW2, then as a Medical Secretary. She later lived in a Winnebago with her mother and sister Lillian, travelling throughout Canada and USA. In later years she moved to British Columbia with her companion Godfrey Harwood (who pre-deceased her in 1994), then returned to Whitby Ontario where she lived with her sister Lillian Bonar (who pre-deceased her in 2004). Joan lived on her own in an apartment in Whitby until her death. In recent years Joan joined a Writing Club and was working on her memoirs when she fell ill.
At age 80, Joan became an avid traveller and journeyed to many places including Australia, China, S. Africa, Russia and England. On her last trip to Australia at age 85 she hiked and camped in the Australian outback. Joan lived life to the fullest and leaves behind 2 sons Larry & David, 2 daughters Charleen & Lorine, a younger sister Eileen and an uncle Walter. Her grandchildren and great-grandchildren are numerous.
My condolences. The slideshow and obituary are beautiful and show your mother lived life to the fullest.
ReplyDeletePlease accept my sincere sympathies! You've posted a beautiful tribute to her. Thank you for sharing this much of her with us. You will be in my prayers!
ReplyDeleteMy sincerest sympathy on the loss of your beloved mother. May the wonderful memories and stories of her help you find some peace.
ReplyDeleteDear Lorine,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to learn of the loss of your mother, Joan. You have posted a beautiful tribute to her with the slideshow and her obituary. I am praying for you and your family.
Kathryn
What a beautiful tribute. Thank you for sharing her with us. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteVelda
ontario
Losing my Mother was certainly the largest challenge I've faced so far in my life. May God bless and keep you, and your family, and may your memories sustain you until you meet again.
ReplyDeleteI was sorry to hear about your Mum. I know she loved life and lived it to the fullest. I always enjoyed her company.
ReplyDeleteJack
Lorine, I'm glad, too, that your last memory was a happy one. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Miriam
Lorine,
ReplyDeleteI am very sorry for your loss. The obituary is perfect, it tells us so much about her.
Apple
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
ReplyDeleteDebbie
Lorine, my sympathy for your loss. What an interesting life your mother had and what admirable spirit! A great role model, truly. Rest in peace, Joan.
ReplyDeleteLorine - I'm thinking of you and your family right now and I am marveling at what a great tribute you've provided here.
ReplyDeleteThomas
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time, Lorine. I'm very sorry for your loss. What a dynamic woman your mother was! Your grief must be great. Time and good memories will see you through.
ReplyDeleteJasia
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
ReplyDeleteMy sincere sympathy to you and your family. Your mother sounds like she was a terrific person.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing this tribute to her with your readers.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lorine, I am so sorry for your loss. Reading your story, I was amazed at your mother's energy and sense of adventure, extending late into her life, and touched by your obvious love for her!
ReplyDeleteBe well.
Keri
Our condolences on the passing of your mother.
ReplyDeleteLorine I am so sorry to hear about your Mom,and it is so nice you had her with you for so long.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you and may she rest in peace
Aline Cormier
Lorine,
ReplyDeleteTo know that she lived and full and wonderful life is comforting. But the loss is still a huge thing. Prayers and hugs are all I can offer you at a time like this.
Sheri Fenley
Dear Lorine,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for sharing this wonderful tribute for your Mom. Do you look like your Mom? Wow, she could have been a Movie Star! So attractive..
We appreciate everything that you have done for all of us through- out the years.
You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Jerri in California
Lorine,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your mother with us. She sounds like a wonderful, adventurous, and energetic lady! You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
June Schultek
What a beautiful tribute to your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteLinda Shea
We are thinking about you and your family during this time of loss.
ReplyDeleteLovely comments about your grandmother, she loved to travel, it seems.
Thinking about you
Wendy and Scott Pigden
Dear Lorine,
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful tribute you have given your beautiful mother. As long as you keep her in your heart and thoughts and prayers, she will never truly die. The sharp edges of your grief will eventually go away and her last smile will bring smiles to your own face. God Bless You and dear Joan.
Rose Mary Hughes
What a loving tribute. Wonderful pics and the perfect obit. Thank you for sharing your mum with us.
ReplyDeleteWhat a loving tribute. You have been such a wonderful source of inspiration for many of us searching for our family history, I hope you get comfort from all the people out there who have you in our thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDelete~Andrea
My sincere condolences to the McGinnis family and descendants. Joan was an amazing woman, and our trip to Europe in 1976, was so full of adventures, and mis-adventures, it still makes me laugh, thanks to Joan's "Oh well" attitude in all things.
ReplyDeleteA beautiful tribute to your Mom and you have my deepest condolences. It's never easy loosing your parent and I'm glad you have that last happy memory with her.
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