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They have listened to my genealogy stories on every car trip from their home to ours and back. Usually it's the same stories and they used to request specific stories each year... "Gramma tell us about our ancestor who walked Niagara Falls on a tightrope"
So I've been feeling pretty proud of my brainwashing. I figured my grandson would be the next generation genealogist as he was the most interested and the most fascinated by the stories.
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Wrong. They could not name or even point to one of the three photos of their 2nd great grandmothers. They seemed puzzled when I pointed them out and provided the names plus the relationship such as "This ancestor is my dad's grandmother". Ali, my grandson, did say at one point, "Oh yeah I kind of remember that name."
What a shock! My constant and repeated brainwashing has not born fruit! I'm still hoping that at some point in the future there will be a glimmer of "Hmmm I think I remember my Gramma telling me blah blah blah" But I don't want to risk losing my candidate for the next in line to take up the Genealogy torch. I do have a backup candidate in a younger grandson so all is not lost. But I'm revising my strategies and coming up with a new plan. I haven't gone one yet but when I figure one out I'll share it with you.
Ideas and suggestions are very welcome!
Ancestor Flash Cards! Make them learn them by rote! Unfortunately, here is the definition:
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n.
1. A memorizing process using routine or repetition, often without full attention or comprehension: learn by rote.
2. Mechanical routine.
So, you have to come up with a way for them to comprehend :)
Don't fret -- my 18 and 25 year olds have begun to show some interest on their own -- so be sure the back of those photos are labeled so when they are interested they can pick it up. What is important that they enjoy the time with you and are proud of your work.
ReplyDeletePamela - yep I've done the Ancestor Cards. We played games and they made up their own games, that was a lot of fun. But I goofed and sent the cards home with them! Guess if I ever saw them again....
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Thanks Peg! That's a good point. I think they DO enjoy it here. Ali is 15 and his sister 13 and they don't have to come so I think it's a positive experience for them
ReplyDeleteI don't know how often you get to see your grandkids, but it just may not be enough time for these things to sink in completely. Reading your post made me try to gauge how much I remember from that age. I can remember the big stuff and the generic day-in/day-out routine, but I'm sure there's a lot I don't remember. I think it's great that you do genealogy activities with them and when my daughter is a little older (she's 5 now) I hope to get her interested.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure you've offered information, though you didn't mention it here, about ancestors involved in anything they might study in school (wars come immediately to mind). I think I might have been more interested in them if I knew I had people involved.
Keep plugging away at it and hopefully you'll get at least one hooked!
Sonja - that's a great idea to tie ancestors in to school curriculum if possible.
ReplyDeleteI don't see my two oldest grandkids much - only 2, sometimes 3 times a year. And it is only on the one visit in the summer that I get to see them without a parent :-) So that's when I can fill their heads with genealogy talk!
I won't get discouraged but it did kind of take me aback somewhat!
If you have older ones, they may enjoy helping with "a" project for the website or a photography project. I have a daughter who loves taking beautiful headstone shots. Someday she may care more about the names, but she'll recall the locations and the field trips.
ReplyDeletePatience! I got interested two years ago. I'll be 67 in a couple of months. Too bad everyone is dead. I'm doing it the hard way.
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