Last week I wrote about a 1943 Wedding Dress that had come down in the family and was now in our possession. What To Do With a 1943 Wedding Dress
explained that we have a beautiful dress worn by my husband's grandmother's sister Florence Elgie when she married Wilbert Hooper in St. Mary's Ontario.
As well as the dress we had the original marriage certificate and a newspaper clipping which contained a photo of the wedding party. I asked for suggestions on what we should do with this dress. One I received was to donate it to a local museum, so I contacted St. Marys Museum and Archives and a few days later received a reply that yes they were interested.
Then the fun began! We knew that my mother-in-law had more items that related to this St. Mary's family. Because they owned the Hooper Dairy in that small town I decided the museum would probably be delighted to receive everything we had.
You can see from the photo on the left all the goodies, such as Hooper Dairy milk bottles and milk tickets and tokens. We even have a photo of the original building for "C.F. Hooper, Exeter Ontario New Laid Eggs". The wedding dress went back into its original box (top upper right of the photo above) wrapped carefully in its original tissue paper.
I'm excited about getting this packed up and shipped off to St. Marys Museum o Monday. Thank you to my readers who had suggestions and especially to daven5port whose idea it was to ask a local museum.
Showing posts with label Family Heirlooms. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family Heirlooms. Show all posts
March 21, 2018
March 7, 2018
What To Do With a 1943 Wedding Dress

This is a photo of my husband's Aunt Florence Hooper (nee Elgie) on her wedding day in 1943. The dress and veil Florence wore in 1943 is now in our possession.
On the left is the lovely dress worn by my husband's Aunt Florence at her wedding November 6th 1943. Florence, born an Elgie, married Wilbert Hooper in St. Mary's Ontario Canada.
After her death, her lovely dress and veil came to my husband and we've been debating what to do with it ever since.
Today we decided to donate it to our local theatre group in hopes they can use it in one of their productions.
Below see the Wedding Invitation for Florence and her marriage certificate. It makes a lovely group of family heirlooms and I wish we didn't have to separate the dress from everything else but we cannot care for it properly.
What would you do with a family heirloom like this?
clipping from the local newspaper
August 21, 2013
Who Do You Think You Are? Chris O'Donnell's Ancestors' Treasures Left me with Genealogy Envy!
Who Do You Think You Are? on TCL in partnership with Ancestry.com
last night featuring Chris O’Donnell was delightful.
I really enjoyed all the military history that was provided and seeing how pleased and genuinely surprised Chris was with each new find.
All the wonderful family treasures, letters, documents and photos that genealogy researchers kept turning up for him left me in a state of genealogy envy! But I liked how they kept stressing that their finds were unusual and that we are not always so lucky.
When they got to his ancestor who fought in the War of 1812, I was actually dreading what was coming. There's a lot of bickering and controversy over who won that war and of course as a Canadian with ancestors on the British side, I'm backing the point that the Battle of New Orleans was won after the War had officially ended. So it doesn't count. But that controversial point was never mentioned thank goodness.
All in all I think I enjoyed this week's episode almost as much as Christina Applegate's episode. And Chris came across as a decent and rather nice guy! I didn't realize he played the young man in "Scent of a Woman" which is one of my favourite movies of all time. What a great job he did!
What are your thoughts and feelings on last night's episode?
I really enjoyed all the military history that was provided and seeing how pleased and genuinely surprised Chris was with each new find.
All the wonderful family treasures, letters, documents and photos that genealogy researchers kept turning up for him left me in a state of genealogy envy! But I liked how they kept stressing that their finds were unusual and that we are not always so lucky.
When they got to his ancestor who fought in the War of 1812, I was actually dreading what was coming. There's a lot of bickering and controversy over who won that war and of course as a Canadian with ancestors on the British side, I'm backing the point that the Battle of New Orleans was won after the War had officially ended. So it doesn't count. But that controversial point was never mentioned thank goodness.
All in all I think I enjoyed this week's episode almost as much as Christina Applegate's episode. And Chris came across as a decent and rather nice guy! I didn't realize he played the young man in "Scent of a Woman" which is one of my favourite movies of all time. What a great job he did!
What are your thoughts and feelings on last night's episode?
June 21, 2013
Passing On Mother's Jewellry to Her Great-Granddaughters
Yesterday I sorted a small box of my mother's jewellry. It was a job that has been waiting for me to tackle since her death in 2009.
Mom didn't have expensive jewellry but she had necklaces and earrings that she loved and wore frequently. She was especially fond of butterflies and I found one butterfly necklace in the box.
With some odd type of synchronicity, I found three necklaces that needed untangling. Let's just say that Mother didn't hang her jewellry carefully, she tended to toss it in a heap in a box.
Anyway, I found, and untangled 3 necklaces. I have 3 granddaughters. What are the odds? 3 necklaces and 3 granddaughters. So I am going to give them Mother's necklaces.
I'm writing a note to each of them and enclosing a photo and little bio of their great-grandmother Joan.
I hope they treasure these items and pass them on to their daughters.

Mom didn't have expensive jewellry but she had necklaces and earrings that she loved and wore frequently. She was especially fond of butterflies and I found one butterfly necklace in the box.
With some odd type of synchronicity, I found three necklaces that needed untangling. Let's just say that Mother didn't hang her jewellry carefully, she tended to toss it in a heap in a box.
Anyway, I found, and untangled 3 necklaces. I have 3 granddaughters. What are the odds? 3 necklaces and 3 granddaughters. So I am going to give them Mother's necklaces.I'm writing a note to each of them and enclosing a photo and little bio of their great-grandmother Joan.
I hope they treasure these items and pass them on to their daughters.

May 21, 2013
More Issues With Passing on Family Heirlooms and Preserving Their Provenance
| Some of my family heirlooms |
We genealogists have always been faced with the dilemma of what to do with our research, but for me an equally important (and perhaps urgent) question is - to whom do I give my family treasures for safekeeping and how do I ensure that any provenance is attached to each one.
One of my readers, Nicholas, made a good point when he stated that the person you choose to receive a specific heirloom should also know about and have an attachment to the ancestor who originally owned it. Otherwise there is no guarantee they will cherish the item.
I agree with Nicholas but we also have to accept that there is no guarantee an item will be cherished and preserved no matter who we choose. For all we know our beloved heirloom will be put up for auction or as my friend and fellow blogger Midge stated sold on eBay. I know - it's a terrible thought! But we do have to realize that could happen.
Another issue is what if none of our children are the least bit interested and our grandchildren are too young for any determination to be made. Do we just go ahead and assign specific family items to individual family members using our best judgement? Or should we assign them all to one person and request that they in turn pass on individual items as they become aware of interest from other family members?
Now for the most difficult determination - using my husband as an example. He has no children of his own. He has no nieces or nephews to leave his family heirlooms to. But he has an incredible wealth of family treasures and intimate knowledge of each ancestor who owned these treasures. He has a huge number of old family photos, all identified. So what happens to his heirlooms?
He could donate his photos to the St. Mary's Museum which is where his family lived for generations. That would be a very good repository. But what about the physical objects? Would the Museum want his great-great grandfather's Baptismal Mug? Would they want his baby blanket crocheted by his great grandmother? Perhaps they would because all the ancestors who made or bought these items lived in St. Mary's their entire lives. But he also owns many items of furniture - a large pine hutch, parlour tables, paintings done by his grandmother and great-grandmother, his great-grandfather's handmade blanket box and so on.
His last recourse would be to leave the items to my children or my grandchildren. But would they really care about the items and their step-father or step-grandfather's ancestors who owned them? I'm sure my children would treasure the furniture as a lovely antique but whether or not the history of the item and the story of the person who owned it would be kept is doubtful. So perhaps that would have to be enough - that the item itself would be treasured as an antique and passed on to the next generation.
What are your thoughts on these issues?
May 19, 2013
Documenting and Passing on Family Treasures
| Grandpa Fuller's engraved Gold Pocket Watch from 1914 Given by his parents on his 21st birthday before leaving England to settle in Canada |
My hope is that one or more of my children or grandchildren will keep them safe and continue passing them down to the next generation. I've considered giving each family member one treasure to keep safe.
I've also mulled over passing all of the items on to one person for safekeeping. Dilemma #1 - who will get what treasure? And #2 - should I give them now or write out a note explaining who gets what after I'm gone?
The Provenance
I can see a wife looking at it and asking why they are keeping it. Without some paper record, I suspect my sons would shrug a shoulder and say "Geez I dunno, Mom said it was one of her relatives but I don't remember who" Bingo - a label of 25 cents is put on it and it goes out to the front yard.
So I added another dilemma to the mix - #3 how to document the provenance of each family heirloom so that it stays with the specific item
The Dilemmas
That makes 3 dilemmas I need to solve:
- Who will get what treasure? Do I split them up or give them all to one person?
- Should I give them now or write out a note explaining who gets what after I'm gone?
- How do I document the provenance of each family heirloom so that it remains with the item
Here are some of my solutions. Nothing strikes me as the perfect answer but so far these are the best methods I've come up with
1. I've attached labels to many items. The labels indicate who is to have the item after my demise and there is a brief bio of who owned it. There is no info as to when and how I ended up with said item due to space limitations. Some items such as my Grandpa Fuller's gold pocket watch don't lend themselves to having a label affixed!
2. I've inventoried all my family treasures. I took photos then inserted them into WORD and then typed up an explanation of the item, the original owner (with some family tree info), who gave it to me and when. Beside each item I've put the name of who I want to have it (if I've decided!) I printed all the pages off and bound them as a coil bound booklet for my executors. My hope is that as an item is given, the page(s) that apply to it will be torn out and passed on with the item
3. I've tried some online methods including a nice little iPhone app called Heirlooms. But they aren't exactly what I am looking for
4. I've written blog posts about some of my family heirlooms and I am thinking about creating a Shutterfly book with each of these blog posts, then giving one copy to each of my children. So far this is the idea I'm liking the best! Here are a few of the heirlooms I've written about:
A 1913 Fireplace Screen's Long Journey
Great-Grandpa's Trunk
3 Generations of Baby Cups
Cabinet of Curiosities: A Christmas Toast!
Perhaps inside each book I could indicate which heirlooms each of my children or grandchildren is to receive at some point in the future.
So far this seems like the best method as I believe a hard cover book will survive through the generations much better than pieces of paper or labels attached to the back or underside of objects.
And of course, as always, I will continue to tell my children and grandchildren the stories behind each object every time we get together for Thanksgiving or Christmas. I figure repetition of family stories shouldn't be overlooked!
So what are your plans for documenting and passing on your family heirlooms?
March 2, 2013
3 Generations of Baby Cups
This photo shows three generations of baby cups. The one in the front is my husband Brian's. It has his first and middle name engraved.
The cup on the right is engraved "Tommy" and was Brian's father's.
The cup on the left was Brian's grandfather Charlie's baby cup. It is engraved "L.T.M." for his full legal name - Leon Thomas Massey
What family heirlooms do you treasure?
The cup on the right is engraved "Tommy" and was Brian's father's.
The cup on the left was Brian's grandfather Charlie's baby cup. It is engraved "L.T.M." for his full legal name - Leon Thomas Massey
What family heirlooms do you treasure?
February 24, 2013
Heirlooms - iPhone App for Recording Family Treasures
Heirlooms is a terrific little app for keeping track of family treasures and mementos. It's fast, easy to use and pretty.
You choose an heirloom - I chose my great grandmother's toast rack and my grandfather's gold pocket watch - then you follow the instructions and icons to enter information about that item.
The empty fields include a spot to put the owner's name, the name of who owned the item originally, and a story about how the item came into your hands. Then you either take a photo, direct from the app, or choose one from your camera roll, and add that to your item entry.
Update Allows Sharing
Heirlooms also has an update available from the App Store that's pretty cool. File sharing! Now you can share your heirloom collection entries with family members via email. It's also possible to email your entries to your computer or laptop so you can access your notes on family treasures from there too.
If your relative doesn't have the Heirloom App they can get the free Reader in the App Store. This allows for viewing of the exported entry on any IOS device.
I tried emailing an entry to myself about my grandpa's gold pocket watch. It worked great! The email arrived, I opened and read it on my iPhone, then clicked on the attachment which opened in Heirlooms.
I'm impressed! All we genealogists need to do now is get our family members using this terrific little app. It's a great way to preserve family heirlooms digitally, and to share them with long-distance family.
I enjoyed using this new app and am hoping to convince my brother and my children to download it so I can share my entries with them.
Heirlooms App
Heirlooms Free Reader
Technical Details: Compatible with iPhone 3GS, iPhone 4, iPhone 4S, iPhone 5, iPod touch (3rd generation), iPod touch (4th generation), iPod touch (5th generation) and iPad. Requires iOS 5.0 or later. This app is optimized for iPhone 5.
Disclosure: I received a free copy of Heirlooms for review purposes
You choose an heirloom - I chose my great grandmother's toast rack and my grandfather's gold pocket watch - then you follow the instructions and icons to enter information about that item.
The empty fields include a spot to put the owner's name, the name of who owned the item originally, and a story about how the item came into your hands. Then you either take a photo, direct from the app, or choose one from your camera roll, and add that to your item entry.
Update Allows Sharing
Heirlooms also has an update available from the App Store that's pretty cool. File sharing! Now you can share your heirloom collection entries with family members via email. It's also possible to email your entries to your computer or laptop so you can access your notes on family treasures from there too.
If your relative doesn't have the Heirloom App they can get the free Reader in the App Store. This allows for viewing of the exported entry on any IOS device.
I tried emailing an entry to myself about my grandpa's gold pocket watch. It worked great! The email arrived, I opened and read it on my iPhone, then clicked on the attachment which opened in Heirlooms.
I'm impressed! All we genealogists need to do now is get our family members using this terrific little app. It's a great way to preserve family heirlooms digitally, and to share them with long-distance family.
I enjoyed using this new app and am hoping to convince my brother and my children to download it so I can share my entries with them.
Heirlooms App
Heirlooms Free Reader
Technical Details: Compatible with iPhone 3GS, iPhone 4, iPhone 4S, iPhone 5, iPod touch (3rd generation), iPod touch (4th generation), iPod touch (5th generation) and iPad. Requires iOS 5.0 or later. This app is optimized for iPhone 5.
Disclosure: I received a free copy of Heirlooms for review purposes
January 27, 2013
Winners in the Blog Book Tour How to Archive Family Keepsakes
List of Winners from the Blog Book Tour Giveaways. If you see your name please visit Denise's blog to contact her.
Denise May Levenick, The Family Curator
Author, How to Archive Family Keepsakes
Week 1 Winner of the Family History Photo Archive Kit --
Mary Nelson, commenter at 4YourFamilyStories
Mary Nelson, commenter at 4YourFamilyStories
Week 1 Runners Up, free copy of How to Archive Family Keepsakes --
Annemarie Taylor, commenter at 4YourFamilyStories
Tina Telesca, commenter at The Armchair Genealogist
Annemarie Taylor, commenter at 4YourFamilyStories
Tina Telesca, commenter at The Armchair Genealogist
Week 2 Winner of the Family History Oversize Archive Kit --
Robyn, commenter at The Practical Archivist
Robyn, commenter at The Practical Archivist
Week 2 Runner Up, free copy of How to Archive Family Keepsakes --
Cheryl Smallwood-Roberts, commenter at The In-Depth Genealogist
Cheryl Smallwood-Roberts, commenter at The In-Depth Genealogist
Twitter Tweeter Winner, free PDF copy of How to Archive Family Keepsakes --
MariannSRegan
MariannSRegan
FaceBook Friend Winner, free PDF copy of How to Archive Family Keepsakes --
Eli Melitz
Eli Melitz
Google+ Winner, free PDF copy of How to Archive Family Keepsakes --Jenna Mills
January 23, 2013
A New Way to Learn More About Genealogy Books and Authors
The following NEWS RELEASE was sent to Olive Tree Genealogy by Denise May Levenick of The Family Curator blog. Denise has written a book How to Archive Family Keepsakes and many bloggers are participating in a fun and informative Blog Book Tour from January 10 to 26th.
Blog Book Tour Comes to A Computer Near You:
A New Way to Learn More About Genealogy Books and Authors
A New Way to Learn More About Genealogy Books and Authors
Family Curator Blog Book Tour for How to Archive Family Keepsakes by
Denise Levenick – On Tour from January 10-26th, 2013
The Virtual Book Tour brings new books and
authors directly to the reader, and with the Blog Book Tour for Denise
Levenick’s new book How to ArchiveFamily Keepsakes genealogists and family historians are browsing the
pages of this new book via the internet during the16-day tour of popular blogs
and websites January 10 – 26, 2013.
Blog book tours are popular trends in the general e-publishing world but
had limited exposure in the family history community until Gena
Philibert-Ortega introduced her book From
the Family Kitchen to genealogists in a virtualbook tour in August, 2012. Enthusiastic response to Levenick’s blog book
tour shows that the virtual tour continues to be a welcome new event.
After
a successful launch January 10 at the author’s family history blog The Family Curator, the tour stopped
at eight more websites. Each day, content and reviews gave readers a chance to
sample Levenick’s new book and learn more about organizing and preserving
family keepsakes and genealogy papers.
Free
handouts, book excerpts, exclusive articles, reviews, and author interviews are
among the different kinds of content posted in the opening week. Participating
blogs included: Geneabloggers; GenealogyGems Podcast Blog; Moultrie Creek Gazette;, 4Your Family Story; OliveTree Genealogy;, TheArmchair Genealogist; Shadesof the Departed; and Dr.Bill Tells Ancestor Stories.
January 20-25 the Blog Book Tour
continues with visits to six more genealogy blogs for new articles,
interviews, and reviews -- Practical Archivist; TheIn-Depth Genealogist; Food. Family. Ephemera.; DearMYRTLE; AnceStories; and The Houstory Hearth.
How to Archive Family Keepsakes offers practical guidance for family
historians:
•
Helping a parent or loved one
downsize to a smaller home
•
Needing a simple, effective
filing system for genealogy research
•
Interested in scanning and making
digital copies of genealogy records
•
Looking for a way to preserve
your family history and heirlooms for future generations
Proceeds from the sale of How to Archive Family Keepsakes during
the Book Tour will help fund the 2013 Student Genealogy Grant founded in 2010
to assist young genealogists further their genealogical education.
For
more information, visit the Blog Book Tour Page at
The Family Curator website <http://www.thefamilycurator.com/book-tour/>.
January 15, 2013
What to Save? What to Toss? 4 Questions That Can Help You Decide
So read on for great tips on deciding what items are worth archiving. As an added bonus you can get a FREE PDF Chart Handout What To Do With What You Inherit: Save, Skim, or Toss, (Read on for information about downloading the free handout).
What to Save? What to Toss? 4 Questions That Can Help You Decide
Guest Post by Denise May Levenick, The Family Curator, author of How to Archive Family Keepsakes (Family Tree Books, 2012).
It can be hard for family historians to let go of anything that might carry a family story, no matter how old or broken that keepsake might be -- the chipped china teacup you remember from your grandmother's kitchen cupboard, the mildewed children's book that was once bright and new, the keys to long-forgotten locks.
One key isn't much to save, but it doesn't take long for family keepsakes to become a mountain of memorabilia that threatens to come down on our present life like an avalanche.
So, how do we choose, what to save, what to toss, and what to give away? I've sifted, sorted, and organized dozens of family collections, and discovered that it sometimes "less" is truly "more," even when it comes to family archives. Yes, we could probably find a family story in every single item set aside and saved, but is that the story we want to preserve? Or, knowing the story, can we let the item go?
Our ancestors were mobile people, and as anyone knows who has ever moved from home to home, each relocation typically involves a kind of triage. Some things are tossed away, others carefully packed up and moved to the new home. Rarely is a home moved intact from place to place.
The same kinds of decisions occur between generations. Sometimes, a son or daughter will inherit an entire home of possessions and need to begin the difficult task of sifting, sorting, saving, and tossing.
Family historians will want to be on the lookout for anything that documents vital record information (birth, marriage, death records), hints at unknown family members, or fills in the blanks for "mystery years" or "family secrets."
Ask Yourself
1. Why did my ancestor save this?
The answer could be quite simple. Maybe your mom, like her girlfriends, followed the current fad and pressed her prom corsage in her school yearbook. Or, perhaps your grandmother added a caption to a baby photo because there was no other documentation of birth. The dried flowers are sentimental, but can be discarded. The baby photo, however, should be preserved with its important handwritten note.
2. Is it unique, one-of-a-kind?
Some family letters, photos or documents might be the only proof of birth or other event; you will want to save those items that document a vital event or important family story.
3. Is it old?
You might be unsure whether or not an item is worth keeping. When in doubt, save it, especially any original document decades old with names, places, and dates. You may discover connections later in your research. Think again about Question #1: Why did my ancestor save this?
4. Is it valuable?
“Value is relative,” you may have heard it said. And, it’s true. What’s valuable to you today, may not be valuable to your children or grandchildren.
Some items, like books and newspapers are now available in digital versions. Save digital copies as PDF images and let go of the paper copies. Or save a digital copy and file a single paper copy as a backup. Digital storage is less expensive than physical storage space. Do preserve your family’s heirloom original documents, though. They may be priceless and unique.
Think About Your Answers
Four "Yes" answers should be a clue that the item is worth preserving, or at least holding for further consideration.
I've found 19th century baby photos tucked between pizza take-out menus and trade union cards stashed in old wallets. You have to look inside everything, but then, it's ok to toss the cracked plastic envelope, the take-out menus and the smashed, blackened prom corsage.
Take a digital photo if you need a visual reminder of the artifact. Write a short note if it holds a special story. If in doubt whether or not you should let something go, ask yourself if you've ever saved a similar memento from your own life experience, and what you expect your children to do with it. Sometimes, it's ok to give yourself permission to hold on to the memory and let go of the clutter.
For a FREE PDF chart What To Do With What You Inherit: Save, Skim, or Toss, visit www.thefamilycurator.com/saveskimtoss.
Find more ideas for sorting and organizing inherited family treasures in How to Archive Family Keepsakes: Learn How to Preserve Family Photos, Memorabilia & Genealogy Records by Denise May Levenick (Family Tree Books, 2012). Copyright, 2012, Denise May Levenick. All Rights Reserved. www.thefamilycurator.com
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About the Author
In every family, someone ends up with “the stuff.” Denise May Levenick is a writer, researcher, and speaker with a passion for preserving and sharing family treasures of all kinds. She is the creator of the award-winning family history blog, The Family Curator www.TheFamilyCurator.com and author of the new book How to Archive Family Keepsakes: Learn How to Preserve Family Photos, Memorabilia and Genealogy Records, (Family Tree Books, 2012).
January 10, 2013
Family Curator Blog Book Tour for How to Archive Family Keepsakes
Family Curator Blog Book Tour for How to Archive Family Keepsakes by Denise Levenick – On Tour from January 10-26th, 2013.
How to ArchiveFamily Keepsakes: Learn to Preserve Family Photos, Memorabilia &
Genealogy Records will
be featured in a new Blog Book Tour January 10-26, 2013. With top reviews from
leading genealogy bloggers and 5-Star Ratings on Amazon.com, this new resource
by Denise Levenick, The Family Curator, will help you organize and preserve your
family history heirlooms and research in 2013.
Visit 14 popular
genealogy blogs and websites featuring Denise and How to Archive Family Keepsakes for book excerpts, interviews,
special guest posts, free downloads, and giveaways. View the schedule at the Blog Book Tour Page. (Olive Tree Genealogy will be part of the Blog Book Tour, watch for a Guest post from the author on January 15!)
How to Archive Family Keepsakes offers practical guidance for family
historians:
•
Helping a parent or loved one
downsize to a smaller home
•
Needing a simple, effective
filing system for genealogy research
•
Interested in scanning and making
digital copies of genealogy records
•
Looking for a way to preserve
your family history and heirlooms for future generations
Proceeds from the sale of How to Archive Family Keepsakes during
the Book Tour will help fund the 2013 Student Genealogy Grant founded in 2010
in honor of Denise’s mother, Suzanne Winsor Freeman.
About the Author
Denise Levenick lives in Southern
California and inherited her love of family history along with a trunk filled
with family treasures from her maternal grandmother. She is now the caretaker
of several family collections and has adapted professional archival techniques to
organize and preserve family keepsakes for a home situation. She is a frequent
contributor to Family Tree Magazine
and speaks to genealogy societies and service groups about preserving family
treasures. Denise created The FamilyCurator blog in 2007 where she continues to write about her own family
history research and preserving family keepsakes.
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January 8, 2013
A Genealogy Mystery: The Gun & the Watch Fob
This is the story of a long-standing family mystery in my husband's Massey family.
The characters
William Massey born 1916 and died 1984. He was a bachelor who lived in the sleepy town of St. Mary's Ontario his entire life. I'll call him Bill Jr.
His uncle Bill Massey was born 1894 and died in 1967. He too was a bachelor who to our knowledge never left St. Mary's. Let's call him Bill Sr.
When Bill Jr. died in 1984 his brother Mike cleared out Bill's house and found two objects which he gave to my husband (Bill's brother's grandson). Mike did not know where one of the items came from or why his brother had it but he knew that the second item belonged to their uncle Bill who was born in 1894. Mike did not know why his Uncle Bill (Sr.) had this particular item.
The objects
1. A Nagant Gas Seal Revolver made in Belgium, model 1895, manufactured in 1898, known to belong to Bill Sr.
2. A watch fob with a two annas coin from India dated 1897. On the reverse of the coin is a shamrock with a green stone. The shamrock has been soldered on. Not known if it was ever owned by Bill Sr.
The gun would have been an unusual gun to find in North America years ago. As far as we can find out they were never sold commercially in this country. This gun was basically only used by the Polish Army, the Russian Army and some European Police Forces so it is curious how it ended up in the sleepy little town of St. Mary's Ontario.
Neither of the uncles (Bill Sr. or Bill Jr.) ever traveled overseas as far as we can determine. Bill Sr. born in 1894 would have been too young to be the original owner of the gun. Did it belong to his father Thomas Massey?
There is indeed a sentence in Thomas Massey's obituary of 1912 which has puzzled my husband for many years "...the deceased was born in St. Mary's and spent all but a few years in the Stone Town." The Stone Town refers to St. Mary's where Thomas was born and died. To the family's knowledge he never left but this tiny reference in his obituary does indicate that indeed he did live elsewhere at some point in his life.
Also noteworthy perhaps is the fact that Uncle Bill Sr, the man who we know the gun once belonged to, was 18 when his father Thomas died. It might make sense that a gun belonging to his dad would be given to him as a memento. But the puzzle remains - how was the gun obtained and by who? And... do the watch fob and India coin go with the gun? In other words were they owned by the same man?
I should also mention that neither of the Bills collected antiques or were sentimental. They had no other family treasures in their homes. So why keep this gun and watch fob?
The Massey family were not wealthy. They were not sophisticated. They didn't travel. They were hard-working labourers who lived and died in St. Mary's. The Massey family history was passed down, any heirlooms were also passed down and treasured and family stories known and told about each member of the family. But nothing was ever heard of any of the family going off on an adventure or joining the army and leaving Canada.
Did one of the Massey men win these items in a poker game? Bill Sr. was a barber and perhaps one of his customers paid for their haircut and shave with the gun. We have no clues and no idea as to what the story is. But we think there just might be an adventure related to these items and waiting to be found.
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| Bill Jr. back 2nd from left |
William Massey born 1916 and died 1984. He was a bachelor who lived in the sleepy town of St. Mary's Ontario his entire life. I'll call him Bill Jr.
His uncle Bill Massey was born 1894 and died in 1967. He too was a bachelor who to our knowledge never left St. Mary's. Let's call him Bill Sr.
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| Bill Massey Sr. |
When Bill Jr. died in 1984 his brother Mike cleared out Bill's house and found two objects which he gave to my husband (Bill's brother's grandson). Mike did not know where one of the items came from or why his brother had it but he knew that the second item belonged to their uncle Bill who was born in 1894. Mike did not know why his Uncle Bill (Sr.) had this particular item.
The objects
1. A Nagant Gas Seal Revolver made in Belgium, model 1895, manufactured in 1898, known to belong to Bill Sr.
2. A watch fob with a two annas coin from India dated 1897. On the reverse of the coin is a shamrock with a green stone. The shamrock has been soldered on. Not known if it was ever owned by Bill Sr.
The gun would have been an unusual gun to find in North America years ago. As far as we can find out they were never sold commercially in this country. This gun was basically only used by the Polish Army, the Russian Army and some European Police Forces so it is curious how it ended up in the sleepy little town of St. Mary's Ontario.
Neither of the uncles (Bill Sr. or Bill Jr.) ever traveled overseas as far as we can determine. Bill Sr. born in 1894 would have been too young to be the original owner of the gun. Did it belong to his father Thomas Massey?
There is indeed a sentence in Thomas Massey's obituary of 1912 which has puzzled my husband for many years "...the deceased was born in St. Mary's and spent all but a few years in the Stone Town." The Stone Town refers to St. Mary's where Thomas was born and died. To the family's knowledge he never left but this tiny reference in his obituary does indicate that indeed he did live elsewhere at some point in his life.
Also noteworthy perhaps is the fact that Uncle Bill Sr, the man who we know the gun once belonged to, was 18 when his father Thomas died. It might make sense that a gun belonging to his dad would be given to him as a memento. But the puzzle remains - how was the gun obtained and by who? And... do the watch fob and India coin go with the gun? In other words were they owned by the same man?
I should also mention that neither of the Bills collected antiques or were sentimental. They had no other family treasures in their homes. So why keep this gun and watch fob?
The Massey family were not wealthy. They were not sophisticated. They didn't travel. They were hard-working labourers who lived and died in St. Mary's. The Massey family history was passed down, any heirlooms were also passed down and treasured and family stories known and told about each member of the family. But nothing was ever heard of any of the family going off on an adventure or joining the army and leaving Canada.
Did one of the Massey men win these items in a poker game? Bill Sr. was a barber and perhaps one of his customers paid for their haircut and shave with the gun. We have no clues and no idea as to what the story is. But we think there just might be an adventure related to these items and waiting to be found.
January 2, 2013
The Facey Loveseat, Still in the Family After 5 Generations
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| Loveseat and Chair Today |
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| Private Collection B. Massey |
The photo with the young girl shows the loveseat in the home of their daughter Mary Louise Elgie (nee Facey). That is hubs' mother sitting on it. Mary Louise was her grandmother.
And in this photo taken today, the loveseat is in a new home and hubs' mother is seated on it.
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| Photo courtesy of D. Bobo |
Samuel is holding his grandsons Warren Haves and Harry Elgie. Sitting beside him on the loveseat are his son-in-law William Elgie and William's wife Mary Louise Facey (Samuel and Margaret's daughter).
Isn't it wonderful that 5 generations of Facey descendants have owned and cared for this parlour set?
Hubs' nephew has a young daughter and the next time they visit his grandmother's home we are going to take a photo with hubs, his mom, hubs' nephew and the daughter.
That will make the daughter the 7th generation in the family to sit on the loveseat. Perhaps one day it will be hers.
December 21, 2012
Historic Homes - the Sandercock House
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| Sam Sandercock Home, St. Mary's Ontario Canada |
The Sandercock family lived there until 1974 when their bachelor son Wilbur aka Tiny died.
Recently the St. Mary's Museum in St. Mary's Ontario did a write-up in the St. Mary's Journal Argus about the Sandercock family and this house. Much of their genealogical family information came from my husband,
As the published article states, Sam and Ann lost two of their sons in WW1. I've written about the Sandercock family and those boys previously on the Olive Tree Genealogy blog, and featured a postcard sent by one of them (Cecil) to his only sister Myrtle (my husband's great-grandmother) during the war.
| Postcard from Cecil Sandercok 1918 |
Hubs' family believes in preserving and passing on family treasures, and hubs is lucky enough to own the postcard sent by Cecil two months before he was killed in 1918 as well as Cecil's war medals.
We also have a photo of the Sandercock family with Sam and his boys in full uniform, taken shortly before they were all sent overseas.
| Cecil Sandercock WW1 Medals |
In a serendiptitious twist, last year hubs was given Sam Sandercock's mustache cup to add to his collection of antique mustache cups.
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| Sam Sandercock's Mustache Cup |
The photo behind Sam's mustache cup is of Sam and his son Bill who was killed one year before his brother Cecil during WW1.
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| Journal Argus story of the Sandercock House |
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