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* ask for help but never thank the person who spent their time to help
* can't copy my name correctly (it makes me wonder how good a job they're doing copying census data and other documents...)
* asks a question in a forum or on a message board that could be easily answered by doing a 2 minute search online
* doesn't look at the record he/she found and think about what it means and whether or not those facts fit their ancestor
* merges family trees without checking the sources to verify
* writes to say they share one of your ancestors and you share all your information but they share nothing with you
* want your help and send you a 10 page file of rambling sentences that would take you hours to figure out, instead of taking the time to summarize what they need and what they know
* posts nasty comments, belittles and argues in online forums
* jumps in with wild guesses instead of waiting to see if someone with actual knowledge will respond when another genealogist poses a question in a forum
* post a question in an online forum or a mailing list that starts with "I know I'm in the wrong forum but...." instead of finding a forum with the appropriate topic.
* go out of their way to share with others
* give their time to help other genealogists
* carefully record their sources and verify "facts" they find online
* feel a sense of community and pitch in when needed
* encourage newcomers
Thanks to the genealogists who are in the Thumbs Up group! You make it all worthwhile.

